How Well Do You Know Your Partner? The Gottman Relationship Quiz

I can name my partner’s closest friends.

I know what currently causes my partner the most stress.

I know what helps my partner feel appreciated in our relationship.

My partner and I share personal values

I know what types of affection my partner enjoys most.

My partner and I share rituals or small traditions that matter to us.

My partner and I share at least one long-term goal or plan for the future.

My partner and I have a physical intimacy and sex life that feels comfortable for both of us.

I know the major events that shaped my partner’s life.

I know my partner’s main worries or concerns right now.

Talking about the future with my partner feels hopeful and exciting.

We show appreciation for each other regularly.

My partner makes me feel valued and important.

My partner often does thoughtful things that make me feel loved.

There are moments when being together feels easy and deeply comforting.

I can be fully myself with my partner without hesitation.

My partner and I create moments that feel romantic in our own way.

My partner and I share a kind of closeness that feels steady and reassuring.

How do you prefer to work on your relationship?*

What best describes your relationship right now?*